Monday, December 16, 2013

Please let our girl-friends breathe!

Its vacation time for me.. yay! Amidst all the fun and meeting peeps after so long, I decided to write another piece. It might not be as good but I hope you all will appreciate the fact that I tried in this vacation-ey mood.

Sorry boys, but here is yet another complaint against some of you guys. Here goes my rant about some men who don't treat their woman right.


We all have that one girl-friend who we think is perfect. She is good at almost everything she does. She knows how to treat everyone right and she cares about everyone and makes sure everyone around her is happy. But then if you look closely into her life, its a big freaking mess. Why? Thanks to that stupid boyfriend of hers.

That boyfriend of her who doesn't really care what she does. She is so actively involved in so many things but he could care less. There are so many well wishers around and so many people encouraging her in what she does and supporting her all the time and then there is her boyfriend oblivious to everything and living his life big.

I wonder what he does or how he feels? What was he thinking when he wanted to be in a relationship with her? Was he the same when they started? Did something happen? She looks the same to me, hello? She has always been that cheerful person going around spreading happiness. Maybe I'm exaggerating a tad bit, but still.. she acts the same around us. So are you the only exception? or are you just exceptional?

This guy is just too difficult to understand. He makes her life horribly stinky when she is with him and when she wants to leave, he doesn't want her to go either. What do you want dear? Why don't you let her go if she is just a big burden in your life? Why do you keep her hanging in between?

You all might be thinking if she is not being treated right, why in the world is she still around? He is tricky trust me. He is mean all these times making her life a crazy mess. Finally she thinks she has had enough and she strengthens up and makes up her mind that she can do better. She is ready to leave and then.. boom.. there goes his drama. "Baby please don't leave", "Don't go, I will change for you, I will change for us", "This is the last time I promise, I have been terribly busy but give me just one last chance" blah blah blah.

When someone is so in love and the other one promises to change, you either have to be very strong or uberly realistic  (unlike many girls) to say no. So things are back to normal again. Its flowers, butterflies, and unicorns everywhere in this fairly land. He is back to normal.. for FEW DAYS. Then again the same cycle repeats again and again and again. I wonder when is it that this relationship finally ends? What makes the girl-friend of ours reach her breaking point.

If there was a simpler way of taking her to that breaking point, I would have taken her to that point long ago.. with my black magic.. trust me! (;

Its not even that she is scared that she is going to be single all her life without him. NO WAY! She has so many good guys lined up after her. There are definitely some better ones as well. She could be doing so much better with some of these guys who are super interested in her life. They care about her so much and they are always concerned about her. But because of this thing called "love" she thinks he will change someday and these guys are in the friend zone!

 If you pay close attention to couples around you, in most cases, its always the losers that get the good girls. Maybe because all the good ones are in friend zone? who knows?

Whatever it is, there is no way of telling if its ever possible to bring this guy back to how he was before. Or if he's still in love but seriously has some bigger issues going on in life. Or if its just communication gap, or there could be zillions of other reasons. But in the end all that matters is if he would only speak up and let her know what he wants. What his plans are. If he's always scared of commitment and not ready to be her "boyfriend", then he should definitely make up his mind. Spread the word peeps, let's not let our good girl-friends down! (:

3 comments:

  1. Be it a guy or a gal, in a relationship, all I can say is "Najik ko Deuta Hela". Once you are always with someone, the whole thinking perspective changes. My opinion is that your brain knows that he/she is yours, thus it will not do extra effort to please the other. NOW, when a couple is just falling in love, they do all these moves to secure the second party. This does not last after being in a relationship. Hence all the DRAMA you are talking about starts.

    Change is inevitable.....it's just that there are more unwanted changes in relationships than what the heart desires....then mind starts to play the trick. Thus, along with breathing space for presumed better half, control is also required #Control#of#your#own#mind

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